Sunday, May 12, 2013

On This Mother's Day ~ Hopes and Dreams





My dreams for my children ~ For each to know the hope of the calling of the Lord.  For each to know the value of serving others and hard work.  For each to know she is loved beyond measure.

What are your dreams for your children?
 

Saturday, May 11, 2013

This Week ~ May 5-11, 2013


  • In my life this week…Lots of mixed emotions.  Missing Beloved as he has headed to work for 5 straight weeks in the far North, dealing with anger issues at home, enjoying all the rain that has fallen, and the relief of Co-op being completed for this school year.  Group Impove & Piano performances.

  • In our homeschool this week…We wrapped up our Co-op classes and took a look at what we have left to finish overall.  Each daughter has a time line and  a list of items to finish.

  • Places we’re going and people we’re seeing…My sister and her family are planning on visiting us later this week.  We're looking forward to lots of cousin time!

  • My favorite things this week were…the opportunities where I found myself alone with different children.  The piano recital and the group improve performance.

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    And the pink package that arrived on Thursday!

  • My kiddos favorite thing this week was…probably knowing just what they have to finish for this academic year and watching Wreck It Ralph ~ a surprise I blessed them with.

  • Things I’m working on…some deep cleaning and summer schedule planning.

  • I’m cooking…actually I'm planning how to bring my kids into the meal planning, preparing and clean up this summer.

  • I’m grateful for…grace and the hope of the Lord.

  • I’m praying for…my children and granddaughter to know the hope of God's calling on their life.

  • I rewarded my kids this week by…picking up Wreck It Ralph from the library, and with popcorn & apples for dinner.

  • A photo, video, link, or quote to share (silly, serious or both!)…



    To Lesbia's Mother

    Dear Lesbia's Mom,

    It has been my hope for two years to be able to get on a plane and travel to Guatemala, to meet you, to tell you that you are not in this parenting thing alone.  I wanted to tell you that even though I am roughly 2500 miles away and we've never met, that I pray that God will hold you up.

    And then the call came, your precious daughter, my sponsored child, left the Compassion program despite the encouragement of the staff.  I had noticed over the last few letters how Lesbia's tone had changed from young and cheerful to sad and bordering on hopeless. 


    Oh how I hope that you have not given up.

    What is it like, trying to raise a daughter, alone without the support of a husband, in poverty, without enough?

    I can only imagine the hopelessness that might try to settle in.  The loneliness that produces fear.  The simple reality of hunger and sickness that stamps out dreams.

    Please don't give up.

    I will keep praying because I know One who spans distance, fills gaps and loves you.  He loves you and your children with a forever love.  I will pray that the seeds of truth which have been sown in your daughter will germinate and bring life to both of you. 

    And while I probably won't be able to get on that plane to Guatemala I'll quietly remember you and pray that God will uphold you, supply you with enough.

    Please don't give up.

     

    The Cat that God Sent and The Dog that Talked to God, Review

    "The Cat that God Sent" by Jim Kraus



    Jake Wilkerson, a disillusioned young pastor who is an expert at hiding his fears, takes on a new assignment at a small rural church in Coudersport, Pennsylvania--which is a far piece from anywhere and full of curiously odd and eccentric people. His first day on the job, he is adopted by Petey--a cat of unknown origins and breed--but a very sentient cat who believes that he is on a mission from God to redeem Jake and bring him back to the truth. Jake must confront his doubts early on when he meets Emma Grainger, a single woman and a veterinarian who dismisses all Christians as "those people." Then, Tassy, a young runaway with a secret, arrives at the door of the church looking for a place of refuge. How does Jake deal with this runaway and his interest in Dr. Grainger? More importantly, can Jake rekindle his faith? Petey does his best to lead all people to the truth, in a most subtle and feline way.
     
     


    Recently widowed Mary Fassler buys a Miniature Schnauzer, Rufus, and her world is turned sideways in the midst of her grief.  It seems that Rufus speaks. And not just to her. He also talks to God. When Rufus begins sharing advice that could result in major changes, Mary gets the feeling the pooch might not be steering her in the right direction. Or, is she just afraid to take the leap and discover something she desperately needs? Only Rufus...and God...knows.


    The author has written stories that explore the surface of unbelief, doubt and pain, with well placed humor and likeable characters.  The stories were rather long in developing and it was challenging to hang in there with Rufus, "The Dog That Talked to God."  On the other hand Petey's comments sprinkled throughout "The Cat that God Sent" injected enough compassionate humor to keep the story moving along. 

    About the Author:
    Jim Kraus grew up in Western Pennsylvania and has spent the last twenty years as a vice president of a major Christian publishing house. He has written more than twenty books and novels, including the best-selling The Dog That Talked to God. He and his family live outside of Chicago with a sweet miniature Schnauzer and an ill-tempered Siberian cat named (of course) Petey. www.jimkraus.com

    I received these books from Litfuse in exchange for my personal thoughts.

    Friday, May 10, 2013

    This Moment

    This Moment, This Man~


    This photo captures a moment yes, but also a relationship, a hope, a celebration and a goodbye.  But also more.
     
    This man, with whom I have shared life for many years, celebrated a birthday with us the Saturday and the Sunday before his actual day, because he was heading NORTH.
     
    This man who asked me to be his nearly 20 years ago, and despite all the narrow misses, hard times, good times, full to over flowing times where we were stretched way too thin,
    has held tight to me, never letting me spiral off.
     
    We've walked together through the valley of the shadow of death.
    Together we've welcomed life through adoption and birth.
    We've shared amazement at the gifts God has given us. 
    That HE would bestow such reward upon us.
     
    I've heard that wine gets better with age
    And women more beautiful as well.
    But this I know very well,
    This I have seen,
    A man who fears the Lord grows deeper
     and more handsome
    The eyes deeper
     as the years pass.
    Love and trust grow stronger.
     
    The joy of being his grows sweeter and sweeter.

    I love you Beloved.
    Happy Birthday. 
     

    Thursday, May 9, 2013

    Supporting Life

    In January 1988, as a very young unwed adult, I was very surprised to discover I was pregnant

    During a visit to a clinic for BC pills, a routine pregnancy test was run.   In the same breath the clinic work told me that the test was positive, she asked me when I would like to be scheduled to "take care of it".

    The news of the new life within me took me completely by surprise, and I couldn't think to respond to the clinic worker.   Stunned but unwilling to schedule "the procedure" until I talked with my boyfriend.  I walked out of the clinic that day.  By God's grace I didn't return, even though the relationship ended and I didn't have a clue what I was going to do.

     Eight months later a beautiful baby girl was born and I became a very young mother.  Now that baby girl is grown, and is the mother of my precious granddaughter.  Life has brought forth life.

    As I look back on that January day I wonder how many young women like me are quickly presented with a solution to the "surprise" of an unplanned pregnancy, and how many are ushered into ending the life of the little surprise.

    The work of LifeNetwork pushes back the darkness, protects the unborn and ministers to the young women who find themselves in an unplanned pregnancy. Each woman who walks into a LifeNetwork office is presented with life and hope. That is worth supporting. 

    Saturday June 1 my daughters and I will be participating in the Walk/Run for Life in our city.  One of my daughters will be running in the 5K, the rest of us will walk and push JoyNess in the NanaMobile.  Will you sponsor us as we walk/run to raise money to keep the doors of LifeNetwork open in our community?

     
    As a child advocate, most of what I write about is child sponsorship and ministry to children & families.  Occasionally I write about the healing I have been given from years of intense abuse as a child, and the hope I long to offer others seeking healing from that atrocity. 

    But there are other ways in which I desire to offer hope and help.  Most stem from my own experiences, but I do believe that the hope and deliverance we have been given provides us direction on how to live and offer ourselves to God's service